The Ballistic Metal Guide: Dildos for Beginners

They say you never forget your first. 

Of course, this saying usually doesn’t refer to sex toys, but when discussing dildos, few statements are more true. 

Possibly the most classic and versatile sex toy on the planet, a dildo is the must-have toy in your sex arsenal. So yes, when it finally comes time to buy your first, it’s natural that you’d like to find the one that will blow your mind from the start. 

But finding that perfect first dildo can be scary. Exciting, sure, but also scary. Where should you even begin? Well, this guide is a good place to start…

An Introduction to Dildos

Let’s start with the basics. 

When discussing dildos, we’re usually referring to the penis-shaped object designed to provide extra pleasure, either when masturbating solo or during sex. 

Dildos come in various shapes and sizes. They are usually made of silicone or other types of plastic, but you will also find glass and metal ones. 

The purpose, however, remains the same regardless of your dildo’s specifics… 

How to Choose the Best Beginner Dildo

Speaking of a dildo’s specifics, what makes a good beginner dildo? Here are some of the key factors to keep in mind when choosing the best one to get you started:

• Size matters: Like penises they aim to resemble, dildos come in a whole range of sizes, from tiny through medium to extra large. Naturally, for your first dildo opt for one of a smaller or medium size of around 5-7 inches with a girth of 1.5-2 inches. 
• Find your shape: Most dildos are either straight or curved. The latter work brilliantly for stimulating your g-spot, whereas straight dildos are typically used for training up to larger toys. 
• Pick the right material: Always opt for a non-porous material for your dildo, silicone, glass, or metal, for example. These are the safest options plus they are very easy to clean. For a beginner dildo, our recommendation is to go with silicone. 
• Hard or soft dilemma: This is a question of practicality vs. realism. Harder dildos are generally easier to insert and work better during penetration, whereas softer ones provide a more realistic feel.
• Consider extra features: Your first dildo doesn’t have to be basic. Treat yourself and look for a dildo that comes with extra features for some more intense stimulation. A vibrator dildo, for instance, is a great choice for your first toy.
• Where do you intend to put it: In most instances, you should be able to use all types of dildos for vaginal stimulation. However, if you’re looking for an anal dildo, make sure it comes with a handle or a flared base to prevent it from sliding in. 

Best Dildos for Beginners: Our Top Picks

Kickstart your dildo journey the right way. Our Ballistic Metal dildo collection is full of great options for beginners. However, when it comes to beginner dildos, the three below are probably the best ones for newbies:

#1 Squirtz Cyberskin Life-Like Squirting Dildo

Looking for a toy that feels as real as the real deal? Meet the Squirtz realistic dildo. This dual-density CyberSkin marvel comes in 7.5 or 8.5 inches, so the size is always just right. With a firm core and a soft, supple exterior, this dildo is a perfect option for beginners looking for a lifelike experience. 

#2 Cyberskin Real Man European Cock Dildo

Say hello to your European adventure. Its name? CyberSkin® Real Man European Cock 7.5" dildo! With 5.5 inches of insertable bliss, this handcrafted marvel feels as real as your fantasies. The meticulously detailed penis and testicles look so authentic, you'll be checking for a passport. Thanks to the built-in suction cup base, it's harness-compatible and ready for any escapade. So, buckle up, because this is one European tour that won't leave you jet-lagged - just utterly satisfied!

#3 Obsession Intense Massager Wand Dildo

We're obsessed with the Obsession wand, and once you try it, you will be too! Our team gave it a glowing 5-star review after personally testing this marvel. It's our most powerful wand dildo massager yet, boasting an intensely rumbly motor inside a luxuriously smooth silicone head. Perfect for both beginners and more experienced adventurers, this beauty comes in eye-catching royal purple, vibrant violet, and sleek black. With its easy-to-use power button and up-and-down controls, the Obsession dildo wand is the ultimate addition to your pleasure arsenal. Get ready for some serious magic!

The ABC of Using a Dildo

Before we let you have fun with your shiny new toy, let’s set a few ground rules for using your dildo. Here’s the ABC of using a dildo:

• There’s no such thing as too much lube: Before you insert your dildo in your vagina, be sure you lube it all up properly with a water-based lubricant. Lube is your best friend when using a dildo, ensuring a smooth, juicy, and comfortable ride. This is even more important when using a dildo for anal play since, unlike most vaginas, an anus can’t self-lubricate.
• Start slow & take your time: You might be tempted to go all the way from the very start. One word of advice: don’t. If it’s your first time using a dildo, take it slow and spend some time getting used to the feeling of a dildo around your vagina or anus. It’s best to stimulate yourself a bit before inserting a dildo to warm yourself up for smoother insertion. 
• Find your pleasure: Once you’re turned on and lubed up, it’s time to get the party started. Again, though, don’t rush. Start by slowly inserting your dildo into your vagina or anal canal. At first, just the tip. Slowly increase it by a couple of inches until you decide it’s not too much. Once you introduce Mr. Dildo to your vagina or anus, it’s time to invite him for a little dance. We won’t spoil it for you, though. It’s your playtime, so have fun! Just don’t go too rough on the first try. 

By following these few simple rules you can ensure your dildo shenanigans will be as pleasurable as possible and, most importantly, safe. 

Wrapping Up

And that would be it. As you can see, finding that perfect beginner dildo is much easier than some might paint it. You just have to know where to look.

So, the next time you crave some exciting solo or couple session, spice it up with one of our dildos available at Ballistic Metal. Available in a great range of sizes and types, our selection of dildos is perfect for both beginners seeking new sensations and sex toy veterans looking for new toys to add to their arsenal. 

Are you ready to give it a go?