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As someone who’s seen The US Office 12 times already (and is currently on their 13th rewatch), I know better than anyone that some things are better on repeat. The same can be said about your favorite comfort food, music album, or book.
When it comes to your bedroom shenanigans, however, adding some spice here and there is much needed. The easiest way to do that? Trying out new sex positions.
Oh yes, breaking the usual circle of missionary, doggy style, and cowgirl (or cowboy) is an awesome and easy way to inject your relationship with a fresh dose of sexual thrill.
Here are our favorite 20 sex positions to make your sex life more intense, in no particular order.
Why you should try it: A comfortable and easy-to-perform sex position for more skin contact and intimacy. Additionally, the short strokes in this position are perfect for targeting her G-spot (or his P-spot).
How to do it: Lie together on your sides, facing the same direction, just like you would when falling asleep. The receiving partner needs to pull their knees up slightly, pushing their bottom toward the giver, who slides up from behind.
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🍆 Hot tip The giver can place their hands on the receiver’s shoulders for increased intensity and deeper thrust. You can also try choking if you’re feeling extra kinky. |
Why you should try it: It’s a highly intimate sex position as you lie very close to your partner maintaining eye contact. It also provides more control over how deep they can thrust.
How to do it: Just like during spooning, you lie together on your side, this time facing toward each other. The receiver can lift one leg or wrap it around the partner providing the partner with a more comfortable way to slide inside.
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🍆 Hot tip Intertwine your legs and arms together for more intense sensations and deeper penetration. |
Why you should try it: By far the best for more intense oral pleasure, with both partners giving and receiving oral sex simultaneously.
How to do it: To do sixty-nine, one partner needs to lie down on their back, with another climbing on top with the head facing the partner’s penis or vagina. Once all set, start performing magic with your mouth, hands, or fingers.
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🍆 Hot tip Use anal toys like butt plugs, dildos, or anal vibrators while giving each other fellatio for more intense orgasm. |
Why you should try it: It’s an incredibly intense and intimate position; it also offers great support, making it a perfect position for longer sex sessions.
How to do it: A giver sits on the chair or the edge of the bed. The other partner climbs on their lap face-to-face and, once comfortably on the saddle, starts riding up and down with hands wrapped around their partner. The receiver controls the tempo.
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🍆 Hot tip Stimulate each other's upper bodies like neck, ears, and nipples. You can also use nipple clamps instead and focus on gazing into each other's eyes. |
Why you should try it: The receiver is in total control, adjusting the speed and depth, with the giver lying comfortably on their back and admiring their partner’s back.
How to do it: A giver lies down on their back and the partner climbs up on top like they would in a traditional cowgirl (or cowboy) position kneeling and facing the giver’s feet. Once in position, a receiver slides onto the giver’s penis or strap-on and starts riding them.
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🍆 Hot tip The receiver can easily reach their vagina or penis and masturbate while riding the partner. For women, we strongly recommend using a vibrator here. For guys, you can either use your hand or go wild with a penis stroker . |
Why you should try it: Allows for super-deep penetration as the receiving partner’s thighs wrap around the giver’s waist. Additionally, if you’re looking for some extra workout, the wheelbarrow is an intense calorie burner.
How to do it: The receiving partner should get down on their knees and hands. The giver then picks their legs up by the pelvis and lets the receiver wrap the thighs around their waist while holding the receiver by their waist. With all set, the giver slides in.
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🍆 Hot tip This sex position can be difficult to pull off, especially for the receiver whose arms can strain after a while. To give their arms a break, they can try resting their elbows on a table. A giver could also sit down on the edge of the bed or chair, which also takes the strain out of this position. |
Why you should try it: Easy to pull off as it’s a variation on a reverse cowgirl position. It also offers a partner on the bottom a great view of the receiver’s butt.
How to do it: Go into the reverse cowgirl position. The receiver then bends down forward, resting on their elbows while riding their partner.
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🍆 Hot tip A giver gets great access to their partner’s anus, which makes this position a great opportunity to experiment with anal play. Start with smaller butt plugs and slowly work your way up with dildos. |
Why you should try it: A great variation on the missionary position for deeper penetration and intense G or P-spot stimulation. It also provides a receiver with easy access to the clitoris or penis.
How to do it: The receiver lies on the back like they would for a missionary position and raises their legs. The giving partner kneels in front grabbing their partner’s ankles and spreading their legs into a V position before going inside.
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🍆 Hot tip If you’re on the receiving end, use your hands for extra stimulation of your nipples, clitoris, or penis. Also, a pro tip, be sure to stretch first before spreading your legs. |
Why you should try it: The pretzel offers deep penetration of doggy style while also allowing for eye contact for greater intimacy.
How to do it: One partner lies down on their side while the giver kneels down with the receiver’s lying leg between their thighs. The receiving partner then bends their second leg around the giver’s waist or lets it rest on their thigh.
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🍆 Hot tip Get extra intense by staring into each other’s eyes while stimulating your upper bodies. This position also grants a giver easy access to the receiver’s clitoris. |
Why you should try it: A great sex position for intense eye contact. Also, the receiver gets an extra rush of blood to their head, increasing the ecstasy.
How to do it: One partner lies on their back with their legs raised over their head. The giver then squats over them and slides in and out with their penis, fingers, or strap-on.
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🍆 Pro tip Be extra careful not to put too much strain on the receiver’s head. To avoid neck injuries, it’s best to be gentle when thrusting. |
Why you should try it: A great sex position for roleplay; plus, it allows for extra intense body contact, ideal for hugging, kissing, and eye gazes.
How to do it: The giver stands up and picks up their partner who wraps their hand around the giver’s neck and thighs around their waist during the penetration.
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🍆 Hot tip As a giver, push the receiver against the wall (gently, of course) for easier penetration. You can also place your partner on the counter or table to put less strain on your arms. |
Why you should try it: An easy variation of the missionary position that offers more intense sex for vulva owners. Long story short, raised legs narrow the vagina to help target the G-spot through deeper penetration.
How to do it: The receiver lies on their back with both legs resting on the giver’s shoulders (left leg on the right shoulder and right leg on the left). The giving partner enters from the front as they would when doing missionary.
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🍆 Hot tip The angle will allow you to go deeper, so it’s better to start slowly to avoid causing discomfort to the receiving partner. |
Why you should try it: This sex position is brilliant for admiring your partner’s body. It also gives both partners a lot of control over thrusts’ speed, depth, and angle.
How to do it: The giver sits with their legs straight, while their partner sits on their thighs with legs bent. The giver then bends their knees lifting the partner. Once in position, you both partners lean back and get to work.
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🍆 Hot tip If you’re the giver, you’ll have easy access to your partner’s clitoris. Use one hand to stimulate it. Try using a vibrator for more intense sensations. |
Why you should try it: The ballet dancer is the perfect position for quick sex in tight spaces (for instance a shower). It also allows for some quality face-to-face time for more intimate sex.
How to do it: Stand facing each other. A receiving partner then lifts their leg, wrapping it around the giver’s thigh or waist and pulling them closer.
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🍆 Hot tip If a receiver is extra flexible, try raising your leg higher and resting it on your partner’s shoulder. It allows for an even deeper penetration. Just be sure to stretch beforehand, though. |
Why you should try it: A great position for extra clitoral stimulation during penetration and deep penetration.
How to do it: The receiving partner needs to lie down and go into a partial bridge position (their body should resemble a pinball position, hence the name). The giver then kneels, raises their partner’s butt (for extra support), and enters.
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🍆 Hot tip The receiver can throw their leg up their partner’s shoulder for even deeper thrusts, while the giver can stimulate their partner’s clitoris. |
Why you should try it: This position allows for great intimacy and deep penetration. It’s also very easy to perform and comfortable for the receiver, providing the giver with full control over the speed and depth of their thrusts.
How to do it: The receiving partner lies down on the bed, table, or any type of flat furniture. The giver then stands in front of them, lifts their waist slightly, says a magic word, and enters.
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🍆 Hot tip As a giver, you have a lot of opportunities for some extra stimulation, be it your partner’s clitoris, penis, or upper body. |
Why you should try it: It’s a reverse butter churner, so this time it’s the giver whose blood rushes to their head for the mind-blowing orgasm and ecstasy.
How to do it: The giver lies down on the floor with legs on the edge of the bed, sofa, or armchair. The partner then straddles them and starts riding.
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🍆 Hot tip For a safer and more comfortable experience, the giver should place a pillow under their head. |
Why you should try it: With the receiver’s legs pressed together, the hold on the partner’s penis is tighter, enhancing the intensity of their sensation as they thrust.
How to do it: The receiver lies on their side on the edge of the bed or sofa with their back facing their standing partner who enters from behind.
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🍆 Hot tip The receiver can adjust the grip by pressing their legs harder or softer. They can also join the fun and take control of the speed and depth of thrusts by moving their hips. |
Why you should try it: Also known as the hot seat, this position is perfect for extra G-spot stimulation. It’s also easy to pull off and doesn’t require too much flexibility or strength.
How to do it: The penetrating partner sits on the chair. The receiver stands in front, turns around, and sits on the giver’s lap, and starts riding them, adjusting the tempo and depth of their thrusts.
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🍆 Hot tip As a giver, you have tons of opportunities for some extra stimulation. You can stimulate your partner’s nipples, clitoris, or penis, or even choke them if they’re into that. |
Why you should try it: A receiver gets a great view of the partner’s ass, providing them with premier access to their anus or testicles.
How to do it: The receiver lies on the back with their partner straddling them facing away (like in 69). The receiving partner then lifts their legs and wraps them around their partner, elevating their pelvis so that the giver can enter.
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🍆 Hot tip The receiver can use anal toys like a prostate massagers or a vibrator to stimulate their partner’s P-spot for some extra intense orgasms. |
So, wrapping up, as you can see you have plenty of options to introduce something new to your bedroom. And that’s just the start. There are truly endless possibilities when having sex, and remember, fortune favors the bold.
So, don’t wait. Use our list, gather the necessary accessories ( browse our store for some fun options ), and take your sex life to a whole new level.
