Top 7 Solo Sex Positions

by Billy Ballistic on November 03, 2024

Masturbation can be as good as sex. Here, we said it. And we meant it. While it doesn’t get as much recognition as getting freaky with a partner, self-pleasure is one of the best ways to unwind, explore new sensations, and connect with your own body. 

However, the sad truth is that most of us treat masturbation with some neglect. We feel the need, we do ourselves, and then we sit for a moment with a sense of guilt. 

Sounds familiar? If so, we have something that will allow you to reach new heights when flying solo. From hands-free ideas to angles that hit just right, these seven solo sex positions are all about amplifying the pleasure and having a little fun while you're at it. 

So let’s dive in and get inspired for some quality time with the one person who knows you best: you!

#1 The Classic Lie-Back

Let’s open our list with an all-time classic that is a lie-back. To do it, find a cozy spot - either your bed, couch or (if you’re feeling freaky) rug. Prop your knees up slightly and spread your legs, allowing a relaxed, natural angle for self-exploration. This position is perfect for a leisurely pace, giving you full control to enjoy every sensation.

🍆Hot tip: Slip a pillow under your hips to elevate them, creating a more pronounced curve in your lower back. This change in angle will bring your fingers or toy into deeper contact, heightening pleasure. Try rocking your hips or circling your fingers in different directions to stimulate multiple areas and add variety.

#2 The Standing Leg Up

Okay, it’s time to kick it up a notch. Will the really horny gal reading this please stand up? Stand beside a chair or bed and lift one leg to rest on it, slightly bending your knee. This position lets your leg and hip naturally open, creating easy access for stimulation. Also, with gravity’s assistance, you’ll feel heightened sensations as blood flow increases in your lady parts. It’s a more daring but still simple-to-execute position, so be sure to give it a go. 

🍆Hot tip: This position calls for a vibrator, giving you extra mobility and the freedom to move as you please. Focus on using your legs and core to control your movements, allowing you to experiment with speed, depth, and angle. 

#3 The Tummy Time Tingle

Let’s get back to horizontal positions. This time, however, lie face-down instead of up, with a pillow beneath your hips for gentle elevation. This cozy, snug position creates natural pressure, making it ideal for subtle, indirect stimulation. The “tummy time tingle” is perfect for a slower, more sensual session that lets you savor every touch.

🍆Hot tip: Place a small, powerful vibrator beneath you or use your hands to create a delicate grind against the pillow. Focus on slow, gentle movements to keep the tension building gradually. Let yourself melt into the experience, paying attention to every little sensation to reach a soft, tantalizing climax.

#4 On All Fours

Let’s make this more kinky, shall we? It’s time to go down all fours for some good solo humping. Kneel in a gentle cat position with your hips slightly arched. Doing that will open up your body, heightening the intensity of every touch or thrust. 

🍆Hot tip: Fit a suction-cup dildo on the wall, lube up your pussy and your toy, and let the dildo slide inside. With the dildo firmly in place, you can easily dictate the speed and depth of each thrust, giving you full control over your pleasure. 

#5 The Seated Spread

Find a sturdy chair and sit on the edge, spreading your legs wide. This open position provides easy access to your vagina while leaning back just a little gives you a chance to explore with a toy or your hand at different angles. This position feels grounding and powerful, offering full control and comfort. 

🍆Hot tip: With one hand free, let it wander to explore other areas like your breasts, neck, or thighs. You can also use nipple clamps if you’re feeling extra kinky. By stimulating all your erogenous zones, each touch and stroke will feel even more intense.

#6 Solo Cowgirl

With no partner underneath you, you’ll need to get creative. In this case, you have several options to ride on - a pillow, the arm of your couch, or a suction-cup dildo fitted onto the floor. Whatever you choose, straddle so your hips are over it, and gently grind your hips back and forth. 

🍆Hot tip: Experiment with different speeds and rhythms to find that sweet spot. And don’t forget to use a lot of lubricant for a silky glide, especially if you’re going the pillow or sofa arm route. 

#7 The Slide Dish

Did you really think we’d forget about your other hole? Not a chance. If you fancy some butt stuff, the slide dish position is a real treat. To do it, lie on your side with your knees slightly curled up toward your chest. This will open up both your holes nicely. Once ready, lube up, slide an anal toy into your butt, and enjoy yourself. 

🍆Hot tip: With a but plug, well, plugged in, use a wand vibrator or your fingers to stimulate your vagina. Mixing anal play with good old self-fingering is a great way to take things to a whole new level. 

The End

And that would be a wrap on our list of top solo sex positions. Congrats, you’ve reached the climax. Experimenting with these additional positions can keep your solo play fresh and exciting, allowing you to find new ways to enjoy yourself. 

Each position has its own unique angle and feel, helping you discover new preferences and enhance self-intimacy, so give them a go the next time you want to treat yourself. 

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Either way, we’ve got you covered. And now go and enjoy yourself. You deserve it!

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